If you're like most of us, and I used to be like that too, we often judge ourselves and/or blame our partner for the conflict we experience in our relationship(s). We tend to feel victimized by their behavior and the painful feelings that it's causing. Of course, in some circumstances, when a relationship is toxic or abusive in any way, you need first to make sure you're safe.
However, more often than not, we are not aware of our patterns of thinking and behavior that might be causing painful emotions & conflict within ourselves and
Learning how to love and take care of yourself emotionally in the relationship, without judging yourself, will reduce conflicts and improve the way you relate
to your partner and others.
Together we're going to create a safe space in which you will feel guided
and supported to heal, grow and build trust within yourself.
Our initial sessions will be dedicated to delving deeply into yourself, seeking to truly understand yourself and get clear on what you want to experience in your relationship(s).
Too often we know what it is we don't want rather than focussing on what we truly desire.
We'll explore what is keeping you stuck in your relationships, the conflicts you
experience and uncover dysfunctional patterns of thinking & behavior that keep
repeating over and over again.
You'll gain understanding of how most of those patterns and beliefs were formed when we were growing up and affect our adult relationships.
We will work on a conscious and subconscious level to address the root cause of these dysfunctional patterns and beliefs in order to create a deep and lasting change.
Self awareness allows for a genuine understanding of yourself, how you might be avoiding your true feelings and how you might be abandoning yourself in your relationship(s).
It also allows you to do something about it as you will acquire powerful tools to heal and manage painful emotions that may be triggered in your relationship(s).
You will learn to communicate your truth in a respectful way, set healthy boundaries and to take personal responsibility for your part in the relationship.
You will grow in Self love. This is your power.
With a solid understanding of yourself, the tools you'll acquire and by learning to look at yourself through the eyes of love and compassion, you will transform how you are truly present and learn how you can change the whole dynamic of your relationship(s).
You will receive a personalized recording to install new, more beneficial, healthy
beliefs and patterns that are in alignment with your internal values.
This will reflect in your external behavior which will help you on your journey to the creation of trust and integrity within yourself and your relationship(s).
From my own experience I know that long-term inner or relationship conflicts can leave us anxious, worried and depressed, be a drain on our emotional wellbeing & self esteem and can even cause physical discomfort.
It deprives us from the joy of life.
Conflict is often caused by unconscious patterns of thinking and behaviour, in both partners, unresolved feelings of fear or pain which can be healed and rewired on a conscious and subconscious level for a healthier, happier life & relationship.
I'll be honest with you, the process of healing will not always be a feel-good process, however any discomfort will only be temporary. I can tell you that there is great freedom and empowerment in becoming aware of the false beliefs and dysfunctional patterns that are holding you back from the joy & fulfillment you're looking for and in being able to change it.
I'll be delighted to help and support you on your journey!
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Inge has helped me reconnect with my whole self, not just the intellectual and rational part of me.
She has enabled me to face preconceived idea and memories which were formed at a time when they served a purpose in my life and bring me to a realization that they no longer serve me. Her guidance has given me the tools to reframe my sense of who I am and why certain things trigger emotional reactions in me based on my past. Inge’s intuitive listening, genuine acceptance and skill-set create a sense of complete openness and safety where I can talk about anything without fear of judgment or shame. The time spent with Inge has allowed me to accept all parts of myself, learn the importance of self-love and caring and see how I can heal myself in order to reach a space where I feel ready to review past relationships in a new light and be open to new balanced relationships which bring joy to my life.
"I came to Inge because I didn't feel really happy anymore. I also wanted to arm myself against my sensitivities within my relationship and feel more balanced.
Inge taught me many things, especially that we cannot change other people but only ourselves. She is a kind of guide who uses various techniques from different
disciplines to help and guide you, without shying away from the spiritual aspect but with a solid and grounded foundation. I immediately felt at ease with her. She is empathic, but was also challenging at times, holding up a mirror and waking you up so you can grow further".
What brought me to Inge was that I had lost my inner smile as of pain due to certain circumstances. How could I return to being the happy woman I once was, and how could I be better with myself? Her kindness, listening ear and with her questions, we came back to the essentials. She learned me the tools how to heal myself. Thank you very much Inge!
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